steps to delete sent messages on Reddit:

• Messages you receive after sending are permanent and cannot be deleted, however you may always delete private messages from other people. To erase a message sent by a different user.
• Below everything else on that page, click the link in your post text to locate a delete option.
• A private message you send to another user is saved in their inbox and cannot be removed. Using a desktop, navigate to Messages > Inbox > 'Delete' to delete messages you've received (below the received message).
• By hovering over a message on the web and hitting the trash icon, you can erase it at any time. You can also remove a discussion in your iOS or Android app by touching and holding the conversation, selecting Delete Message, then hitting OK for confirmation.
• Open your Reddit account and find the message you want to delete. When the Yes/No box displays, select yes.

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